I'm rather unique in how I express myself and it gets picked at when all I am trying to do is befriend others and demonstrate my friendly nature through my choice of class (White Mage)

I get a lot of unenlightened ones implying that just because I have common decency that somehow makes me homosexual, as if being homosexual is a negative thing even though it's not and nor am I gay (I'm married with a baby daughter) just as an example.