OP's complaint is that they don't like the way the game was designed when they are not playing the game the way it was primarily designed to be played. An equivalent would be me picking up something like Rune Factory and then complaining that the combat wasn't hardcore enough - of course it's not, because combat isn't the primary focus of the game.

SE intends for the focus of the game to be on DoW/DoM classes. They're not going to change that just because a few people don't want to do combat.