Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Findel]

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Just building on the conversation a bit, I'm personally on the other extreme of this spectrum. I try so hard to NOT to present myself in that manor, but unfortunately it comes off worse. Thankfully, once I get to know anyone (male or female) well enough, I just treat them like I would any friend. But knowing a player is female irl tends to put me on edge until I am at the point of being familiar with them.

Also why I was super reluctant to post my info on this thread. I didn't want to come off as some desperate, lonely guy looking for a real relationship with someone through this game. I just want another friend to play the game with that A) isn't just another guy, and B) can fill the void of some of my friends I left behind on Balmung. (Long story, won't get into this one) And, if I'm going to "marry" someone in the game, I'd rather it be an actual female.

[dekal]

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That is why a good idea to talk and interact with people before becoming friends or colleagues. I wouldn't never talk in a way to creep anyone, plus I think I am the one that is abused in game lol.

If u were in my server and u got a problem like that I would help too . People sometimes do bad things to others.

[dekal]

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Ah that suck to hear that u got to leave balmung. We have a LS with people from this thread and from others. We try to become friends before anything. If things end up in like RL or just EB in game that is up to the people.

I need to invite Alexis to the LS. I couldn't stay on for long after I finished with the cooper instance I got class this early morning. And still in college...

[Findel]

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It wasn't anything serious, was just time for a change. I do miss the overall community there, but I've found a nice little corner of Malboro to settle into.

[dekal]

@findel glad to hear u found a place in malboro. That is actually the first server I started on, but of the friends I made stop coming so I began to explore other servers until I stayed in balmung. With the new expansion, I wonder where else I ll be going or just staying here.

[Jayboyy]

Yeah I'm new to this whole thing, kinda didn't know how to act when we met dekal. I had to get off due to work. I saw someone mention sincerity, well I know some ppl do troll, why assume that we all do? I'm a male that has never tried to use my female in a way to take advantage or manipulate or make anyone feel uncomfortable. It's just not in my nature to do that. Sure ppl make comments and ask me to do things. But I just say no thanks and keep it movin. I just have a lot coming up and won't be able to log hours like I used to and am looking for someone who I can work with to achieve the same goals. Raid when we can and progress our relics together. I feel like what's the point in an mmo if your playing alone? So I'm really looking forward to meeting most of you and hopefully one of you would be happy to accompany me through Eorzea!

[Alaric1025]

And, if I'm going to "marry" someone in the game, I'd rather it be an actual female.

This I have to agree on, I would rather the female character be a female IRL; person preference. I am not trying to start any RL, if that happens, then it will come natural. For me, an eternal bond partner is to explore the world together and help each other, become really good friends and enjoy each other's company.

[dekal]

@jayboy yeah I know. It was a good to talk to you but we didn't have a lot of time yo talk about those things u mentioned about no be able to be on cuz of things in RL. I got things to do all day long. I even got busy at night. I was tired by time I was done with copper. When I see u on, I ll send u our LS invite. If we are not busy or bored of doing nothing we party and do stuffs together. It is like lina once said lady/gentle on waiting sorta of thing lol. It is always good to get to know more people

[dekal]

This I have to agree on, I would rather the female character be a female IRL; person preference. I am not trying to start any RL, if that happens, then it will come natural. For me, an eternal bond partner is to explore the world together and help each other, become really good friends and enjoy each other's company.

I know some girls that r looking for EB but r playing as males. I say talk with them and see if u can be friends. As I said before people tend to change to their original (RL gender) gender once they become friends/ be familiar with the person.

[Alaric1025]

@dekal Guess it is also hard for me to tell who is who and I feel rude if I ask what gender they are. That is my shy point XD