I made a post similar to this a while back in a post begging for a party search feature. I'm all for bringing pt grinding back but the game has severe flaws other than just forming a group. Party play is far from what it was in XI, mob pathing i severely broken.
I was excited when I saw that they are planning to remove ranged attacks from the majority of mobs. I have some faith now that they may work on mob pathing as well.
Another thing that makes the game feel ancient is the "click here to do anything" button. For instance, the elevator in limsa, why do I have to ask and confirm to use it -.- then watch a small cutscene. It'd be quicker to take the stairs since it doesnt take two clicks and a movie. Why can't I just stand up if I try to run? Instead of having to open my menu and tell my character to stand up.
Admit it or not but there IS a standard in the MMO world for quality of life. It doesn't matter how much content you add, people are going to give up if you don't bring your UI and game behavior up to modern standards.
Allowing PC users to hotkey any menu or action would be a start. In fact, scrap the console idea all together and build the game around the PC. The fact that they are ALREADY struggling with memory limitations on the PS3 makes me shake my head for the future of the game, years down the road.