This thread works. It did for me. Sometimes it just takes some effort on your own part...just like in real life, you cant just sit there and expect things to come to you! Of course, it did help that I WANTED to transfer off my dead-ass server to a populated one...so I did, and now I have more than an eternal bond waifu...I have an in-game partner that makes me look forward to logging in even more every day!