100% agree that new players shouldn't be treated rudely. As in, they shouldn't be made fun of or mocked because they're new. However I don't agree that everyone should cater to a new persons wants. Majority rules in a group. One person's wants is not greater than the rest. If, by chance, the group wants to cater to a newbie then all the power to them.

But I often have a hard time feeling bad for newbies, because a LOT, and I mean a LOT of newbies are aggressive, rude and scary. You never know when they're going to snap at you... If you try to be helpful, and they misinterpret your words, watch out. That's why I never go out of my way to help a newbie unless I'm directly asked for help. Even then I'm afraid.