Quote Originally Posted by Kosmos992k View Post
Agreed.

For every jerky tank, there are at least 10 really good ones who are nice people.
For every jerky healer there are at least 10 really good ones who are nice people.
For every jerky DPS there are at least 10 really good ones who are nice people.

Seems to me that if we let the minority of players - aka the ones we might call 'jerks' affect how we respond to everyone, we allow the 'jerks' to win.
I'll challenge that statement with my experience on duty finder, along with some logical speculation:

Lots of people have a PLD/WAR as an alt class because, and solely because tanks get fewer queue times, making it much easier to farm those tomes. That being said, most of them (the VAST MAJORITY I found in duty finder) treat you like a glorified bot who's sort of an extra in his epic tale of awesomeness, and who are there for the one reason of helping him farm tomes as quickly as possible. They are jerkish, egocentric and self-absorbed. They don't say hi, and they don't say goodbye. They are the scum, and they are NUMEROUS. VERY. NUMEROUS.

They are NOT the minority. Not even by a long shot.