How would identify a female player guy/girl?

[KaiKatzchen]

hehe, it doesn't and shouldn't matter what any of us play as, and what we are in real life. and it's kinda sad that it does matter... at least to some.

Seriously, 100% agree. I'm a girl and I have a girl character and a guy character. Who cares!

[AkashiXI]

No insecurity? So you agree with him that men must play male characters or they're not normal? Do you agree that players need to get some sort of sexual satisfaction to justify playing opposite genders? Do you go out of your way to flirt with every female toon in game? Do you then continue to do so trying to figure out their irl gender?

Yeah it's pretty insecure.

If we had to conform to him everyone would be a hyur or lala (unless midgets aren't normal to him either). Cat people aren't "normal". Elves aren't "normal". The upcoming Au'Ra race isn't "normal".

And if the response to the above is "that's not the kind of normal he's referring to" then why should the lines be drawn to his point and then be ignored for every other point? Why are we playing video games? None of the things happening in our fantasy MMO are "normal".

What the...? How did you get any of that from my post? First of all, no to all your questions. I was simply saying you were insinuating a lot from his OP (like you did to mine, seriously calm down), and that I feel you're digging too deep to find a hidden agenda. Am I being clear now? Serious question, not condescending.

[Millerna]

Those are the Arbor Interior Walls~! I'm a huge Grid supporter so my whole top floor of my private house is Grid themed~!

I love my basement too~! Wanna see it?

Been grid/twin adder since 1.0 myself. I'm definitely going to have to look for those arbor walls. As for that basement ....... Sure!

[Adelard]

Well it does matter if you become friends with someone. It doesn't hurt to know a little bit more about them.

[Amenian]

Ooooh.. Which walls are those? They're lovely!

Arbor walls. I have them too.

[KaiKatzchen]

Been grid/twin adder since 1.0 myself. I'm definitely going to have to look for those arbor walls. As for that basement ....... Sure!

I'm 1.0 as well~! So this is just a view of my basement:


but I didn't wanna spam the tread with pics so here is a imgur with more pics if you wanna see. I'm really proud of my house. XD

http://imgur.com/a/x0EQE#0

[Teryaani]

Well it does matter if you become friends with someone. It doesn't hurt to know a little bit more about them.

It might hurt. Some people like the anonymity and pressure to tell more may make them uncomfortable. The character gives them more license to be themselves or be something they aren't IRL.

[Teryaani]

I'm 1.0 as well~! So this is just a view of my basement:


but I didn't wanna spam the tread with pics so here is a imgur with more pics if you wanna see. I'm really proud of my house. XD

http://imgur.com/a/x0EQE#0

I like partition setup. I really wish we could paint those. That's the only reason I don't use them in my FC or personal house.

[Millerna]

I'm 1.0 as well~! So this is just a view of my basement:


but I didn't wanna spam the tread with pics so here is a imgur with more pics if you wanna see. I'm really proud of my house. XD

http://imgur.com/a/x0EQE#0

Looks really nice.. I love those sliding doors, and especially the folding screen. I only have a private chamber myself, can't afford a house. Spent too much gil on glamour prisms and dyes

[Faelandaea]

~sigh~

Okay I'll just wrap up this whole topic by saying the same thing to you guys as I say to my real life fiance, whom I game with on FFXIV as well . . . as long as she is logged into game - she is a guy - period. Her character is female, and in real life she is female, but as long as she is logged on - she is a one of the guys.

End of story