The Aggressiveness of Players

[Iagainsti]

I second that. I've been trying to please literally everybody with my healing skills (which is obviously an impossible goal) and I think overall it's caused my performance to go down more than anything. I'm not saying I can't become better, but trying to please every person I get partied with is a wasted endeavor.

As a Tank whos been tanking since been tanking, you please me just by rolling a healer, takes a lot to play either role, and we tend to take the bashes the most( effiing #nerdragers). A good example, my FC pocket healers will strip the pacification I get after Berserk point on everytime, can be helpful especially if it happens during phase changes in some fights (thinking about Solo tank titan ex here mostly) Anyway, I DF something and the healer doesn't. Big Deal? No. should I say something? No, bc ill never see said healer again(presumably) and me saying something could either 1) come off as offensive or 2) Healer is now too worried about missing that that they miss something else. Point is #Nerdragers make our vital roles that much harder and #can'twealljustgetalong?

[technole]

As a Tank whos been tanking since been tanking, you please me just by rolling a healer, takes a lot to play either role, and we tend to take the bashes the most( effiing #nerdragers). A good example, my FC pocket healers will strip the pacification I get after Berserk point on everytime, can be helpful especially if it happens during phase changes in some fights (thinking about Solo tank titan ex here mostly) Anyway, I DF something and the healer doesn't. Big Deal? No.

I'm on the party list debuffs like a hawk. I always take pacification off when not stuck in a GCD for an upcoming mechanic. Healer awareness can only go so far though. Like the previous poster is eluding to, can only carry so many people who don't follow mechanics. In the end simple stuff like that I don't comment on either, especially not knowing the situation they were dealing with compared to a static raid group.