Quote Originally Posted by MageBlack View Post
I get what he is saying. But not all of us chose to go there or when we did choose, it wasnt the overpopulated place it has become. So, I was there when it was relatively uncrowded then it became over populated. Would that then make it my fault and the onus is on me to move somewhere less crowded?

The argument makes sense assuming it was busy and crowded when you chose to make a character there.
That's very true, but it still remains that the choice was yours to make originally (essentially saying that it was a bad choice under the given context). Just as you have no power over who joins the server, SE has no moral power as well. It's true that it's their decision to put in varying prices and other things for system controlled expenses, but that's their design goal to limit things such as what the rich can potentially do within reason in an economy that is typically easy to make a certain amount of reasonable gil for the server.

While you can point fingers at another, and are often justified to do so, it is also very bad ethics to ignore some degree of personal choice, consequence, and responsibility (where possible). In some cases, particularly if you started with ARR, one sign of heavy server load is legacy servers and popular names. Not always applicable, but it's a good starting point for determining consequence of joining a particular server (even if it's just as minimal as queue times to get in).