Hehe, no worries Kid, I'd be just as willing to vote-kick somebody taking the time to fit over efficiency in a sub-50 dungeon (assuming everybody was at least filling their role). In sub-50 dungeons, it's not even worth the time taken to type out a complaint as long as all roles are at least being fulfilled.

@Cynfael: I think your example is an excellent point in how situations vary per person. The healer in your group was definitely kick-worthy as he was not even fulfilling his most basic role. In my scenario, however, players wanted MORE than the basic role. SO while it might have been nice for me to DPS, I was not causing wipes by not doing so (as he would have been doing had new players been present). That being said, in my own case, the noob in the group is always going to be either the tank or the DPS, which only further justifies my focusing on healing rather than DPS'ing. A healer that won't heal properly means a kick. A tank that won't keep the adds off his team means either a kick or my excessive healing, which as you experienced in the case of your bad healer, can indeed be an issue in regards to bad tanks and DPS.

Either way, a player that is doing their job and who is not the cause of a wipe shouldn't take crap from people. There are very clear places where DPS from a healer is a required job (adds in the Firemane fight, Odin burn phase at the end), but mid-way between bosses in Halatali is not one of them. DPS in those areas is just icing on your cake, and anybody worth their salt doesn't NEED the icing, although it's nice when people provide it.