I'm gonna throw my hat in here and say that I don't mind gender-locked gear... I see no problem with this. If you want to wear a bunny suit, roll up a female character. If you want to get the Setzer outfit, roll up a male. This isn't a problem.

As a male player who plays a male character, I have no desire to see my character wearing a leotard, high heels, and rabbit ears, prancing around like a sexy waitress (And quite frankly I don't really want to see that on any male characters either, while I'm being bluntly honest). Nor do I have any desire to wear a dress at any point in my life. Should I have the option...? I ... guess... But I don't see the point. I'd rather have glamor restrictions on heavier armors removed.

People who complain about things like this have too much time on their hands. It's a game, folks. So you can't engage in your digital crossdressing fantasies. Maybe you should rethink your priorities, a little. There are refugee children starving in Uldah and you're annoyed that you can't wear a dress!