Quote Originally Posted by Kosmos992k View Post
The problem with what you said is that everything you stated is relative to *your* judgement of what another player should/should not be doing. I'd have thought being that judgemental and voicing that judgement would be vastly more rude than being the player who isn't comfortable popping cleric stance and holying as you wish.
Holy is a damage mitigation tool that happens to do considerable damage. Damage mitigation is part of the healer role (see: Stoneskin). You can get three casts of holy without worrying about your tank taking more than a little bit of damage, because the enemies will be stunned, and any damage that might get through is taken care of with Regen.

Even if you refuse to pop Cleric Stance for it (which is just a waste not to, really), there is really no good reason to not be using Holy.