You are not a fail.

[Dashuto]

There's nothing wrong with that or trying to go a little or a lot faster. I'm posting against people harassing others over it, or trying to force people into different playstyles that makes them feel stressed out and to thank courteous players who aren't mean about it.
edit: fixed a typo

Except when you do ask someone nicely or try to help them and they flip out? I think you know exactly the type of person I am talking about.