Not everyone who declines to participate in Coil is lazy.

Some players who spam "LF Static" without making attempts to initiate one when that fails are lazy.

Personally I find Coil to be worth doing because I have fun doing it. The background is great (e.g. T11 pre-fight section is pretty epic in scope), the fights are entertaining, and I don't mind the requirement of group learning and coordination since most other content in the game is extremely forgiving in that regard.

I work 40+ hours a week and have other interests, but raiding for an hour or two a couple nights a week isn't a huge burden on my time and is sufficient for progressing. Minimal drama in my group; it's more about helping people correct what's wrong and play better than yelling at them or getting ready to replace them after a couple of mistakes.