PLZ HELP I am being bullied/harassed non stop by another player and GMs resolved it

[Ceodore]

First: Are you a guy or a girl in real life?

Why does this matter? Same sex, opposite sex, or intersex doesn't matter, she's being cyber stalked/bullied. If it was a girl doing it, it still wouldn't matter. It's because of people thinking there is a difference that we have such a stupidly uncaring society towards males who are bullied/stalked as opposed to females. So yeah, it doesn't matter, anyone in this situation needs to report this to moderators, facebook, and eventually the police.

[Twivana]

Why does this matter? Same sex, opposite sex, or intersex doesn't matter, she's being cyber stalked/bullied. If it was a girl doing it, it still wouldn't matter. It's because of people thinking there is a difference that we have such a stupidly uncaring society towards males who are bullied as opposed to females. So yeah, it doesn't matter, anyone in this situation needs to report this to moderators, facebook, and eventually the police.

I am willing to give him ONE last chance to leave me alone! If he doesn't stop I will go to the police. I hate going to the police for anything but I don't want to cry anymore! I just want to play my favorite game with my friends. I do so much for my community too. I've been trying to help people and teach them t9. Then I get treated like this :[ It's not fair to me and other players when we get on the game to have fun and relax.

[Riviere]

I am willing to give him ONE last chance to leave me alone! If he doesn't stop I will go to the police. I hate going to the police for anything but I don't want to cry anymore! I just want to play my favorite game with my friends. I do so much for my community too. I've been trying to help people and teach them t9. Then I get treated like this :[ It's not fair to me and other players when we get on the game to have fun and relax.

In my opinion, you shouldn't give him more chances and get serious. People like him think it's very cool and entertaining to harass people online because they feel safe behind their screens and they will not stop until it becomes a real life problem for them.

[Ceodore]

I am willing to give him ONE last chance to leave me alone! If he doesn't stop I will go to the police. I hate going to the police for anything but I don't want to cry anymore! I just want to play my favorite game with my friends. I do so much for my community too. I've been trying to help people and teach them t9. Then I get treated like this :[ It's not fair to me and other players when we get on the game to have fun and relax.

I work for the police sweetie... what you're describing is cyber stalking and harassment. Even if neither of you are 18, it's still cyber stalking and harassment. If he is 18 or up, he should know better, if he isn't, then his parents of guardians should be more responsible. If you've already exhausted the resources at your disposal (i.e. FFXIV devs, Facebook admins, etc.) report it, immediately, don't let yourself be walked on or become another statistic. Male or female, anyone should do the same.

[Twivana]

I work for the police sweetie... what you're describing is cyber stalking and harassment. Even if neither of you are 18, it's still cyber stalking and harassment. If he is 18 or up, he should know better, if he isn't, then his parents of guardians should be more responsible. If you've already exhausted the resources at your disposal (i.e. FFXIV devs, Facebook admins, etc.) report it, immediately, don't let yourself be walked on or become another statistic. Male or female, anyone should do the same.

Thing is we have (we as in a bunch of my friends in game) and they haven't done anything. I am pretty sure he is over 18. I myself am 26. ( Dun really care about throwing my age out there). I blocked him on facebook so unless I unblock him I can't view the posts. It's been basically to the point where we are talking about kicking him out of our server FB group and LS in the game.

[Ceodore]

It's been basically to the point where we are talking about kicking him out of our server FB group and LS in the game.

You are upset about the things he is saying but you haven't kicked him from your server FB group (assuming you can) or your in game LS (also assuming you can). Perhaps you should re-evaluate this... or maybe I'm not understanding your situation. You seem afraid of him, and even really dislike the things he's saying to the point of posting a thread here, and you HAVEN'T gone through these measures to alienate him yet? Even if you don't have authority to kick him from these groups, you can leave. If the people who ARE in charge of these groups won't kick him despite the evidence, then perhaps they also aren't people you really need to be around. It's a clear cut and dry situation. He's impacting another player's experience of play, causing discomfort to another player despite being asked to stop. I don't see what the hold up is.

[Riviere]

You are upset about the things he is saying but you haven't kicked him from your server FB group (assuming you can) or your in game LS (also assuming you can). Perhaps you should re-evaluate this... or maybe I'm not understanding your situation. You seem afraid of him, and even really dislike the things he's saying to the point of posting a thread here, and you HAVEN'T gone through these measures to alienate him yet? Even if you don't have authority to kick him from these groups, you can leave. If the people who ARE in charge of these groups won't kick him despite the evidence, then perhaps they also aren't people you really need to be around.

Listen to this man.

If your "friends" know that he's harassing you and haven't done anything or don't even care, then it's time to find new friends. A true friend wouldn't stand for this rubbish and wouldn't even need to think much to come to the conclusion that such person isn't good for the group.