Something I've noticed recently that tanks are very demanding now. For example, as a main SCH, a tank express disgust that I did not pre-buff with stoneskin or adloquium before engaging bosses. Another in Ramuh EX where the main tank literally did refused to engage until I cast adloquium on him.

I admit it's become a bit habitual that I don't pre-buff anymore. I've stop finding much value in stoneskin outside of anything that could be considered difficult like coil raids, especially since a WHM is always present in a large party. Even to pre-buffing with adloquium, I found it really useless as a pre-buff unless it crits. I mean that use to be fun to keep casting to until I saw crit heals but ultimately it felt pretty pointless. Tanks don't usually die in the first two-three hits without it anyway or hit with a critical attack during the initial engagement.

Am I wrong for this? I play my role as a healer seriously and effectively as possible, but this irks me.