alternatively, you could put up a party finder or shout in mor dhona.. or post on one of the 20 popular fan sites forums like bluegartr, etc, or tweet the ffxiv_en acct and try to get more exposure there.. i don't think se will make a site because they kinda want it to have been something you two people did together, also, it doesn't have to be a girl. do a private non attended ceremony with your best bud. there's no kissing in the cutscenes that i saw.