When is it OK to say, "It's Not OK"

[Maza]

I gave up dungeons at ToTo Rak because of the anger and hate spewed out (in general, not at me, I'm a cnj). After a day at work with REAL frustration then having to put up with mean, loudmouth jerks in a game I try to play to have fun and relax is absolutely ridiculous. Doing molten core with 39 other people (in the other game) seemed much more fun way back when : / I guess it's just the times with the "wanting it all now" and "gotta be first to the top" generation. I don't know and I wish I did. If it wasn't for crafting, gathering and exploring I wouldn't be playing.

[Remilia_Nightfall]

I gave up dungeons at ToTo Rak because of the anger and hate spewed out (in general, not at me, I'm a cnj). After a day at work with REAL frustration then having to put up with mean, loudmouth jerks in a game I try to play to have fun and relax is absolutely ridiculous. Doing molten core with 39 other people (in the other game) seemed much more fun way back when : / I guess it's just the times with the "wanting it all now" and "gotta be first to the top" generation. I don't know and I wish I did. If it wasn't for crafting, gathering and exploring I wouldn't be playing.

You just need to find a likeminded group of players to play with.
Endgame raiding is easily possible and indeed quite fun with the right people, even if you have a full time job. Personal experience.