We've been Joking that our FC Bard was too fabulous for everything after he got Amon's Hat, so... yeah I think that it the most fabulous hat you can get. Those boots are pretty fabulous as well.

The Bard AF gear is pretty fabulous as well, perhaps even more if you have the gill to dye it. Gear with the of the Linen Shirt type seem to show a lot of skin, so maybe that could work as well. I'm not sure how most of the crafting gear looks on male characters, but there might be something in there as well.

Please do post a picture of your final outfit xD