i'm having a blast in a XP party right now grinding it out.. I actually enjoy it. WAY better than solo grinding.. have gotten close to 70K SP.. @ 330-410 SP a kill.. =/ bunch of whiners...
Today I have done Behest, Leve's, SP Grinding in a group, City Main Quest, City Side Quests and gone from 15-20 no problem.. sounds like you guys want everything handed to you.