Just to throw in my 2 gil, as a WHM, I prefer to join a party with PLD tank. I don't know why, but I seem to have harder time when I heal WAR. They seem more squishy. They sometimes instantly die during mad massive pull and I feel like I'm a shitty healer. Or maybe I really do suck as a healer. :'(

Whenever I join a Roulette, I constantly pray to get a PLD tank. If I emerge in Stone Vigil with a WAR tank, I want to /facedesk (or /facekeyboard).

Yes PLD don't have spike damage to splash to the whole group of enemies, but they seem to have notably higher survivability. And when I duo with my PLD friend, I feel invincible. We could duo pretty much anything that's outside of Duty Finder. I believe many healers out there also have much love for the Paladins!

Sorry to hear you hate your job. It's sad.