This just happened to me yesterday and illustrates why people shy away from tanking...Was tanking the newest dungeon (the name escapes me at the moment) when we get a few pulls in and the dps trumps up with "pull everything." I just ignore him and continue to pace the run normally. And what do ya know, he just runs off ahead and comes back with a pack of mobs mid fight. I let him eat dirt for that. Now, here is where all the scenarios about tank hating come to into play...Since I let him die for being a fool, he pipes up with, "wtf why you no tank?" and then it starts...the next 3 or 4 pulls, he just goes off on his own and pulls what he wants. All the while, he's making jabs at me in party chat about me not being able to tank, and how I suck at tanking, blah, blah, blah. I finished the run and moved on, but this kind of thing plays out on a daily basis if anyone dies for any reason, no matter what that reason is.