For the most part, people can tell when someone is new by just the class they are on - the base classes I mean. When someone is up in the advanced jobs, they should know what they are doing by that point. If anyone notices someone in the base classes, yeah, cut them some slack. lol And just in general, be courteous, don't be an arse hat. If you are in a bad mood (I am using the word "you" generally speaking for anyone), get off of the game and punch a bean bag or take up some other hobby to release the tension.