I'll agree with the point about the hats. I honestly hate most of the headwear in the game, even the more basic "witch" style hats, that are always too big for the character wearing them.

I do also agree that the magic user sets (Swan set, and both Elk sets) look much, much better on female characters than male.

Maybe the next tier of PVP gear they bring out will be more to your guys' liking.