this can actually be a bad idea. i was tanking brayflox, and the healer kept pulling, causing me to have to fight even more for hate, because the dps didnt really notice half the time who pullled. after 3 warnings, i let him die. there is no reason i should have to deal with that. after healer died, i took hate and tanked them so the dps wouldnt die. i got kicked. i got kicked for not tanking when i had warned i would do that exact thing. i got back in, and the dps didnt like that i had been kicked. they didnt look and thought it was for healer. so i had a few words about what heaers should and shouldnt do, seeing as i main a WHM, and he shut up and we finished the dungeon.