Trying to get a community to work together is not a bad thing, just takes the bad apples that feel they shouldn't be a part of a community for it all to go wrong, you mention XI so you obv played it, and would also know what happens to people that get a very bad reputation for screwing over others , they end up never being able to achieve anything as a lot of people would refuse to party up with them, and when they apply to join something it just takes one person to remind them who you are and your attitude to group events