Please help!

[Ceaulieignemortel]

If your graphics card is intel hd video that is the problem. It essentially means you have no graphics card and the main cpu is doing double duty as a gpu as well.

It is intel...what can I do, do I buy a new graphics card?

[Kerberon]

It is intel...what can I do, do I buy a new graphics card?

A lot of this depends. While yes if you have intel hd video in your desktop, buying a real graphics card is going to help. However you didn't really state the rest of the specs. It could be that even though that would help other parts of the computer would still hold you back.

For instance what exactly is your cpu, since you have intel hd video as a graphics chip it seems, you should have at least an i3 (I'm pretty sure this is the first model that had that chip). While an i3 can run FF14 it's not recommended, it's recommended to use an i5 or better. Since it is an i3 or better that also means that it's an 64 bit system which means that the min recommended spec is 4gb of ram and you said you only have 3. This means that you might have several upgrades that are needed to bring the computer up to "spec"