How is learning skills through an NPC different from other MMOs? Off the top of my head I can account for a handful that I've played that were like that. As for grinding gear, I'd prefer the traditional grind (think: XI's grind for NMs) but this one I'm OK with.

And I'm glad 14 is similar to other MMOs. It makes transitioning to other MMOs easier. Recently started playing WoW and felt incredibly comfortable with the controls since 14s is so similar, just the lack of UI customization and favorable addons is getting to me