Let me give you a scenario first and foremost. I am a busy man, with a full time job and a family on the way and I log roughly 50+ hours a week I have little time to play. When I heard of the system implemented for the relic upgrade via FATE I was cringing, I attempted it and failed, I died a little inside and gave up.
So here is my success story and the steps I took to get it with minimal frustrations. I acquired my final atma on May 25th 2014. Here's what I did to alleviate the grind tension:
- Limit yourself. My limit was 4 Chocobo summons a day in a row. If I could not get a piece after 2 hours then I moved on and did something else (log off, play with friends)
- Understand you may have no luck at all and come up empty handed. Ignore forum stories of people getting it in one day in 8 hours. This will only depress you. I went for 2.5 weeks of nothing at one point.
- Do not stretch yourself out. Pick one thing to do and stick with it. I found this to be the most important, if I was farming for Atma that's all I was doing, I wasn't caring about capping Soldiery at any point in the week and if I didn't cap I wouldn't let it bother me.
- Form a list to check off. I wrote down all the locations and the Atma obtained from them and as I got them I checked them off, keeps you organized and keeps your focus solid (at least for me). This thread also helps with the in game errors in the quest log. It is correct.
- It's a game, treat it as such, why compare yourself to others who have an ungodly amount of time to play over you? This goes hand in hand of not worrying so much about capping in a week and then grinding out to myth cap and then grinding out crafting levels, beast tribe rep, etc. Know your tolerance level for petty time wasting things and remember, stay focused.
- Believe in superstition. This is just a funny point, but I swear the longer I stayed logged out on a daily basis the more RNGesus favored me.
- Finally, remind yourself when you doubt things will get better that this is an MMO, they will nerf this at some point because 4 years from now to grind out 12 Atmas for another 8 classes would be only something reserved for sadists and OCD gamers.
I hope that this helps someone and gives them hope. It worked for me it can work for you!