I believe I already answered a similar post.Honestly, you should accept any advice given. Asked for or not. Following the advice on the other hand, depends if it's useful or not. But only accepting it if you ask for it, is hurting yourself or your group. If someone notices something you're doing is dragging the group down, but you don't see it, they should just keep to themselves or leave? Or even try to kick you? Instead of giving advice of course.
No, you've made it clear that you only take advice if asked for, which is selfish. Unasked for advice is criticism, no matter the person's tone or wording. By choosing to ignore ANY unasked for advice, you are harming your group, period.
Note that this is different than using said advice. If someone tells me i'm doing something wrong, even if the information is incorrect, I will think about it for a moment, not ignore it out of hand. Regardless of their tone or wording.
It's basically like this. You: If I don't know something, i'll ask. But what if you don't know that you don't know?
Last edited by ispano; 05-27-2014 at 07:53 AM.
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