Quote Originally Posted by Lithera View Post
It sounds more like THEY are getting aggro not their pet. ACN/SMN DoTs are much more potent than ARC/BRD so when you Bane those DoTs onto the secondary targets you're generating huge amounts of aggro. Some tanks will pick up on your use of Bane and use Flash/Overpower more frequently but not every tank is that aware. They'll assume you're DoTing their target and spamming Ruin. It can help to say something to the tank.
One of the problems here lie in communicating. I'm on Tonberry, and when using the Duty Finder am by and large paired with JP only speakers. I really wish there were language options so that I could type to them in JP or set up a macro to alert them to the problem in Japanese.