Honestly, I feel the same to an extent (I do learn the fights and stuff before doing anything), and I think this is a reason there are so few tanks in the DF or that use the PF. I'm ilvl93, but I refuse to use the DF or do Roulette because I don't wanna have to put up with asshats. I only do stuff within my FC, even if it means I don't cap my tomestones every week. I'd rather have a good time playing than have to put up with people who cry and scream over a small mistake someone might make.