Since I have been in the game the past two months I have noticed several things.

1. No one has respect for new tanks.
2. Tanks don't like to admit they are new.
3. When they do admit they are new they don't listen to advice.

I was honest every time but I experienced all sorts of hostilities from healers and dps. I stuck with it because I knew it was the nature of the beast. But then I went healer and I tried to be supportive since I knew what it felt like to be a new tank. Provide tips and so forth, where patrols are in dungeons, rotation advice, etc. But I fell on deaf ears. I watched my tank die in Dzemael Darkhold 3 different times as he wasn't tanking in the crystal light. Yeah I could have toughed it out but I shouldn't have to just because the tank is ignorant. So the dps followed me and lived while the tank died. The dps got it and were even trying to tell him but still no avail.