If you've beat hard content in his 95% of the time it's cause you have a guide or the fight memorized. That's not good gaming. Like I said I play call of duty, hop on that with me if you think you're good at video games. You'll quit after two rounds. Memorizing exactly when and where to move is something you had to do in Mario, it shouldn't be something you have to do in a game as good as ffxiv.