Agree completely, most times the people who are pointing fingers are actually the ones that are screwing up the pt. Awhile back I was doing Ifrit EX and 1 healer and tank would constantly die. The same healer would have that soaring wind rebuff and stack on DPS so we all get knocked back and sometimes killed. After 3-4 attempts of wiping we finally get to big nail phase. And I acciedently LB3 too early(BLM) and wipe the group. I apologise and that WHM starts pointing fingers and talking down to me. After that we do a few more attempts with the WHM continually screwing up and forcing us to wipe. Needless to say I will not pt with that player again. When I see him in the same PT now I leave or a FC/LS/Static I ask him to be kicked.