Thanks for the super detailed response. I grasped it pretty well actually. Also i didnt know about that enmity meter, glad i know what it does now! We'll probably have to do some co-orinated work to take bigger mobs down. Were thinking of 3 manning boss type fates, which i've found that people get slammed with out either a ton of people hating on the mob, or proper support. We plan to stick together 100%, so this info is valuable.

Last question.

I've noticed that for some reason, when a mob is getting kited, i can no longer hit it literally no matter what. Is this lag? I usually run less than 150, sometimes 200ms for my average speedtest ping, not bad for being in hawaii on a mobile hot spot. But its super obnoxious that i cant continue to deal DPS on a mob just because theyre chasing some one else. And they cant stop or they'll get melted.