not directly to the OP, but to all who feel like they're in a similar situation:

Log in, stop thinking about yourself directly for a few minutes.

Put some shouts out in town to help encourage new players, or players new to endgame events. Get chatting with people standing around about the game, tactics or something off-topic to the game. In short, socialize.

After a fortnight you might be hard-pressed to fit in your 1hr Coil run because your having too much fun hanging out with your new friends. You'll probably find that you've actually rewarded yourself with a lot more than a full set of Allagan Gear.