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This is not what a Fact is. I'm not pointing it out to be the Grammar Police, but because this philosophy is a huge problem
in the game on the forums. Your beliefs about how seriously players should take this game are creating an atmosphere of hostility, rather than enjoyment, which is making everyone suffer. And your entitlement about it ("Plain fact is...") is degrading and unnecessary.
As far as I know, nobody has claimed that DF doesn't affect you. Taking less personal offense to someone playing their character in a less efficient manner is not saying "let it go, the way they play doesn't affect you." It's saying, "You have three options in these situations: 1.) You could be a leader and a role model, 2.) You can ignore it and play the cards you're dealt, or 3.) You could be a jerk about it."