I am one of those people. I hate them and avoid them whenever possible. Despite my best efforts I continue to be negatively impacted by them. The constant repetition of FATEs continues to delay or prevent me from doing the things I set out to do. So far today I have lost 3 levequests in Whitebrim because the Ice Sprite popped right on top of ime n the middle of a levequest and I did not survive the initial onslaught. IMO the best way to correct this is to make it so you have to opt into the FATE. If you do not then it is as if it is not even there for you. The mobs cannot attack you or you them. Let me know your opinion.