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  1. #21
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    Lokean's Avatar
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    Lokean Makio
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    Lamia
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thunderz View Post
    blacklist them/endthread?

    so many threads like this. Just looking for some attention
    I feel you do need threads like this. A single one could get lost in the background and is harder to track the rising activity of bullies/trolls. People should be allowed to speak out if they feel harassed(though keeping their IGN a secret since SE frowns at that). They shouldn't feel like if they say something, that someone will come around with a statement saying they are looking for attention and should just black list them and get over it. I for one welcome all of it! It shows a growing problem that should be adressed and help, not criticized and told to keep silent about!
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    "Loki, I'm going to give you the best advice. If you are outnumbered, fight. If you are outgunned, run." - SintSuke
    "Not a hero, unless you die."-Nightwish, "Kingslayer"

  2. #22
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lokean View Post
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    Honestly "if" this falls under bullying/harassment for the OP then they should report it to SE

    posting it on the official forums to say: "someone was a jerk to me today, I can't say his name but the world must know."

    I don't see how this was informal to any forum visitor
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  3. #23
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    Lokean Makio
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    Quote Originally Posted by Thunderz View Post
    Honestly "if" this falls under bullying/harassment for the OP then they should report it to SE

    posting it on the official forums to say: "someone was a jerk to me today, I can't say his name but the world must know."

    I don't see how this was informal to any forum visitor
    And that is your opinion. Which I will respect, I will disagree, but I will respect it.
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    "Loki, I'm going to give you the best advice. If you are outnumbered, fight. If you are outgunned, run." - SintSuke
    "Not a hero, unless you die."-Nightwish, "Kingslayer"

  4. #24
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    Zanderific's Avatar
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    Salty Carrot
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    I do have to say that this does open the door for a lot of negativity and drama. none of us likes to be harassed or belittled by anyone especially since we all pay our subs then have to deal with stupid stuff, but the only way to deal with it is Blist and report then move on, I will say we don't have a tremendous amount of this going on in Coeurl and we do have a lot of FC's that have each others back and help each other.
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  5. #25
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    Scarlet Rayne
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    Brynhildr
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    i ask why shouldn't they be named on the forums they obviously have little regard for others .. so why shouldnt they be named so others can steer clear of them there is always blist and report but really.prove what they said unless there stupid enough to keep doing it and in which case they really deserve to be named on the forums just for sheer stupidity!!! i love the ppl that just invite you no asking nothing just an invite .. my advice to the op is the simple threaten works wonders had a guy invite me to some fc like twice no tell no message just an invite .. my response in a tell was thats twice now once more and ill report you and your guild for harassment (don't kid yourself third time i would have) not another invite came my way.
    'bit off topic'
    I've got 10 ppl on my blist in 3 days of moving to new server .. typical accvdfs frfhf named gold spammer etc.. I'm really wondering if it tells them if they are being iggyed if not whats the point to reporting them they can only have 8 characters better 8 b listed then 1 or 2 deleted only to start more for you to blist
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  6. #26
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    Impurrrsive's Avatar
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    Coleo Softpaw
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    Masamune
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    becoz its against the forum rules and regulation, can be banned becoz of that
    i do agree that action is really rude, ppl stay in an FC becoz they happy being in it.
    suddenly telling my FC sucks will make me angry too

    plus preventing naming in forum especially FC avoid community from being more toxic
    the one that done it maybe some minority in the FC (possibly the master :O) but how about the other maybe existent nice member?
    should they be labelled the same?

    maybe according to SE, we player should not pass a judgement
    but waiting judgement from SE about this matter may not come XD
    so many maybe >.<
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  7. #27
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    Mack Salander
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    Sometimes I complain about mass /tells from RMT and it's the same thing only without the personal attack.
    Either way, I feel the need to complain about smaller things at times, even when blist and reported.
    Sometimes a nice little vent can do people wonders and as long as they are not being shifty and breaking any rules, I don't see that there is anything wrong with it.

    And keep in mind that some of us are stronger people in general, not everyone can deal with these things the ways some of us more hardened players can,
    so think about that before you go putting someone down for something getting to them that wouldn't get to you.
    Everyone has their own limits and that doesn't make them any less worthy of playing online games or posting on forums.

    As for Op, if you do happen to come back here(you haven't commented since OP), do try to ignore them,
    I think you will soon see that the good natured players GREATLY outnumber the nasty ones.
    I for one know MANY amazing people here.
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    If you think we just had a nice conversation, I was probably being sarcastic

  8. #28
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    PixiGlow's Avatar
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    Pixi Glow
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    Coeurl
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    Gladiator Lv 50
    Quote Originally Posted by Thunderz View Post
    blacklist them/endthread?

    so many threads like this. Just looking for some attention
    That would be nice, however there are 510 members of this guild and only room for 200 on blacklist.
    Sorry to say but when all the other FC's on the server are having issues with the same FC, maybe there's actually something to the complaints.
    I seriously doubt there are ANY other posts that consist of an entire server complaining about the behavior of people from one guild only. I could be wrong, though.
    Maybe SE could just move them to another server...
    Hey maybe they could be banished to come visit you on Excalibur?
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  9. #29
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    Seiwei's Avatar
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    Miss Jurk
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    Ridill
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    Conjurer Lv 37
    I'm...still unsure of why everyone puts down FF. Been in it a few months now and everyone is super kind and eager to help; I appreciated all of their help when I was a new 50. They jump into help randoms in party finder all the time, help new 50 FC members tackle Titan every Thursday, and have organized 10 different static groups to learn T1 - T4 and help get us ready for T5.

    To Kirasaki, again, such a shining hero <3. He's right though, a certain ex-FC member was kicked for botting and is apparently goin around demanding money for people to join the FC??

    Every FC has their few outspoken, rude-when-frustrated members. Sorry if you encountered ours. Remember, it's just a game! Will never say we're the best, I just like my Ferrets a lot
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  10. #30
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    Paris Omnia
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    Gilgamesh
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    Conjurer Lv 80
    I agree that we are kind of beating a dead horse and become the bullies ourselves. We have said our piece and should just let this die down. While its easy to jump on board (I am guilty of it too) truth is we are judging the FC as a whole when I am sure a good number of members have no clue what is going on. If you do have an issue with FF - bring it up directly with its FC leader and deal with it that way (Not that I think anything would be done)

    We should go back to our old ways of laughing at Yenn thinking he is still a * thing *. Congratulating each other for our in game accomplishments, crashing NN's house and constantly reminding FourLeaf he is still the worst tank on the server. : )
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    Last edited by PariSexus; 01-17-2014 at 01:07 AM.

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