Not only do I have to pay for my own character transfer I have to wait till my account has been active 3 days?

That's the Square Enix policy?

Cause that's what was just explained to me on phone support.

It seems kinda odd to me to convince new players to return after your welcome back weekend and then not give them a way off servers that no longer exist or have idk changed nationalities or something.

Welcome back. Thank you for your money. Learn Japanese or else.