I think a good idea would be to make a thread that said "Make ARR more it's own game" rather than comparing it to any other game, because what the majority of people here criticizing ARR just want a different type of MMO, one that does not follow the EQ/WoW formula and it's tons of clones.
The main problem here is that FFXI was a game with a LOT of personality, compared to the rest of the flavors on the market, so many FF fans and specially the XI veterans expected with XIV something similar a MMO different from the rest, but in touch with XI. When 1.0 delivered, it had those qualities, the problem was that everything was broken, even down to the payment system (I still have nightmares with click & buy), but it had very strong concepts.
Yoshi making a remake and trying to take the game up to global standards isn't a bad idea in itself, but then again, what (in my opinion and many others) all he did was to pick up ALL the global standards (those set by WoW mostly), the good and the bad, and discarded anything related to FFXI or XIV, good or bad.
Why couldn't he just pick up v1.0, change the graphic engine, fix the broken add some good things from other games and keep the real FF feel? I can't think of a single game mechanic in ARR that relates directly to any other FF game apart of the class/job switching. The twitch combat, the simple stats, the no elemental wheel, the lack of interesting materia, the purely vertical approach to equipment, and so on... those do not belong into a Final Fantasy many of the old fans want to play.
The thread discussion is not really about making ARR into FFXI-2, that may have been OP's intention, but the discussion is no longer about that, so maybe a new thread with another title and different OP could bring more to the table.
Also, to clarify some points: To all those saying "If you like X so much go back to X" where X is XI, WoW, EQ, UO, etc... those games are no longer the games we liked and enjoyed, and if we are asking for something those games had it's because they don't have it anymore, and we are looking to find it somewhere else (in this case in FFXIV). If X game was still like back then, we would be playing it instead of arguing in these forums.