Decided to bump this and ask a question...

I find as a Healer in the group I have trouble seeing my aggro build up, mostly as I am checking the PARTY list and as I have the Tank or other friendly targeted most of the time I dont see the enmity bar to see how much aggro I have built up.
I cant look at the mob list either and even when I glance at the thing its not readily apparent what is going on there... least to me.
How do I tell how much aggro I have built up with the enemy mobs ?