It's not really fair to call someone who has a relic +1, a piece of coil gear and an extra i90 or two 'so far behind'. For all you know, he's cleared turn five. Also, not everyone has a static to do 9 minute runs with. Just because you had excess time to level every single class to 50 and are now bored doesn't really make it right to call someone who is doing the same end game content as you 'far behind'. If it was his intention to only really use DRG and not level the rest besides cross class, is he still considered behind?
Sorry for the tangent, but that just sounds like elitist talk (which gets on my last nerve).