Elitism isn't ruining this game, it's in every game does that mean every game is ruined? -- If you've died at DW 3 times theirs no point in continuing as it's clear people aren't listening or they just can't put out enough damage.
It's the same with Garuda, if everyone says they know what to do and they wipe before she goes into phase2 theirs no point continuing as someone is lying and I'd rather not deal with liars.