This is how I dealt with Gil Seller spams

[AltaneenXIV]

I use to have all socializing in one window, but after getting annoyed with Gil Sellers spams, I gave "Shouts" its window and I been satisfied ever since.

That's not a bad plan to manage rmts in cities. Might have to do that myself.

For tells, though I'm sure this is fairly well known, make this macro: /blist add <r>

It will blist that last person who sent you a tell.