I'm posting this because I keep seeing more and more crafters on my server offering to meld materia for people at a cost. Infact, one of them is selling their melds for 10k a meld where the people who are getting materia melded are more often than not even crafters; they are battle classes 50% of the time.
These crafters aren't helping you. You aren't learning to meld. You're just going to need them again the next time you need to meld materia for your next relic because you didn't learn how to craft. Even that aside, it's downright saddening to see players resorting to having to "buy" their melds and even more upsetting to see our player base SELLING these melds. What happened to just wanting to play the game?
My FC is currently on the lookout for a second blacksmith before we start crafting relics and currently we help groups meld their weapons. We've been joining pugs and helping them and "giving away" melds to people who ask. However, in our group (it's 3-4 of us) we don't "carry" you, you are still required to craft your weapon and pull your weight but we will also teach you how to meld so the next time you need a meld you won't need us and you certainly won't need to buy it from someone else.