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    Player
    Mykha's Avatar
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    Mykha Darkstone
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    Excalibur
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    Lancer Lv 52

    I won't play with jerks.

    If you verbally abuse or bully someone in the party, I'm leaving.

    I'm so sick of watching scumbags treat their peers like dirt.

    If you're one of these people, do the rest of us a favor and go be miserable doing something else.
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    Meg Xori
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    Cactuar
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    Astrologian Lv 80
    Quote Originally Posted by Mykha View Post
    If you verbally abuse or bully someone in the party, I'm leaving.

    I'm so sick of watching scumbags treat their peers like dirt.

    If you're one of these people, do the rest of us a favor and go be miserable doing something else.

    Calling people names on a forum is just the same, so your not much better. But if this is a issue than ignore or leave the group. I agree players should be nice and welcomeing but this is the internet.. and well its never gonna be 100%
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    Sleeping One
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    Leviathan
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    Marauder Lv 50
    I feel like you're verbally abusing me, I think I may go make a post about it because feelings.
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    Yslera Ravshana
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    Gladiator Lv 60
    I agree you shouldn't play with jerks. However, before you leave the party, please stand up to the abusive people and tell them to stop. They should leave, not you. If they won't, then apologize to the polite people and then leave.

    I had this happen the other day. Someone was mad that a person new to the dungeon was new. I suggested the complainer leave so we could get replacement. They left. The group got a replacement. We beat the dungeon just fine with the new guy, and had a lot more fun.
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    Player Shioban's Avatar
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    Shio Ban
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    Twintania
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    Conjurer Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Mykha View Post
    If you verbally abuse or bully someone in the party, I'm leaving.

    I'm so sick of watching scumbags treat their peers like dirt.

    If you're one of these people, do the rest of us a favor and go be miserable doing something else.
    Why did you need to make a thread about this?

    I can find out at least 50 other threads the detail the same thing, how are you going to survive as an adult in the world if you can't deal with 'a few jerks'.

    It's like people have no capacity to deal with anything anymore, they have to toss everything into the air and storm off.
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    Ahraliah Moon
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    Mateus
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    Conjurer Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by Shioban View Post
    Why did you need to make a thread about this?

    I can find out at least 50 other threads the detail the same thing, how are you going to survive as an adult in the world if you can't deal with 'a few jerks'.

    It's like people have no capacity to deal with anything anymore, they have to toss everything into the air and storm off.
    Not being able to and not wanting to are 2 different things. Just because, as adults, we have to deal with jerks at work or what have you, doesn't mean we need to put up with them in a game, which is something most play to enjoy. It amuses me how not wanting to play with jerks in a video game means you aren't going to be able to make it in the real world.
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    Ganga Loo
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    Gilgamesh
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    Gladiator Lv 50
    So your solution to dealing with scum bags is instead of telling them they're scum bags you leave the group and potentially screw over 2 nice people?

    Nice.
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    Player Shioban's Avatar
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    Shio Ban
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shyluv View Post
    Not being able to and not wanting to are 2 different things. Just because, as adults, we have to deal with jerks at work or what have you, doesn't mean we need to put up with them in a game, which is something most play to enjoy. It amuses me how not wanting to play with jerks in a video game means you aren't going to be able to make it in the real world.
    This other reply, conveys exactly what I was thinking;

    Quote Originally Posted by Gangaloo View Post
    So your solution to dealing with scum bags is instead of telling them they're scum bags you leave the group and potentially screw over 2 nice people?

    Nice.
    Its less about 'you can't make it in the real world', its more 'How do you not have the capacity to ignore it'.
    I've been dancing with fools for years, quitting doesn't make a difference, there isn't a "no jerk" button on the Duty Finder, you just suck it up and deal with it and try not to respond.
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    Kroktar Thalius
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    Hyperion
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    Archer Lv 50
    Make some friends...so you wont have to deal with that people.
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    Scratchy Shadowtail
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    Goblin
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    Lancer Lv 20
    Since the subs kicked in I had 6 friendly AK parties in a row only my 7th run had someone who was just mildly abrasive. I may just have got lucky but I'm hoping not! Usually I hate about 50% of the groups I get assigned too. Heres hoping its a trend!
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