Video games are the most serious of serious business. Blah blah something about sheeple and superior intellect blah blah... Reminds me of when I used to play some online fps and some guy raged and literally uttered the words, "It's not about having fun, it's about winning!"

Real talk: If you are getting mad at other people playing a video game with you, perhaps you should consider a single player game, or at the very least, just doing premades where you have more control over your player experience. At the end of the day, It's a video game which has no impact on your standing in real life. Chill out and have fun.